Our journey

You might be wondering – who are the people behind this guide? Well, there’s a good chance we’re a lot like you – perhaps just a future version of you.

As with all things on the internet, you would be forgiven for thinking this blog was just yet another mass media outlet publication pushing out pieces like “10 steps to the perfect threesome” – probably written by the young inexperienced intern who may or may not have fooled around a bit with Brad and Brian under the bleachers, but otherwise really doesn’t know much about the topic on which she’s been tasked to write.

That’s not what this is though. We’re a young(-ish) and very experienced monogam-ish / poly-ish couple from Denmark, who’ve tried … a lot.. with a lot of different people in a lot of different contexts. We’ve had a lot of successes, met a lot of other couples and singles like us, and made our fair share of mistakes along the way as well. We’ve seen a ton of different open relationship variations, having been exploring these things for 15+ years, since we were mere teenagers. We know a great deal about what works and what doesn’t in an open-style relationship. We believe we can help you out.

Let us be your guides in this fun and sexy world.